Where to Meet High Value Men

Just like real estate, dating is all about location. In order to meet the right man, you need to put yourself in the right places. This post will help you find the right places to meet high value men.

First let's define what a high value man is so you'll know what to look out for.

The term "high value man" is used in many places to mean many different things, but here, a high value man is someone who is: 

• Mature
• Overall, has his life together
• Wants a serious monogamous long-term relationship and is looking to commit to a woman
• Serious about his financial situation. More important than how much he makes, but how he manages money and the resources he has.
• Is future oriented
• His values and goals align with your own
• Lives a drama free life (no issues with exes, family, friends)
• Is respectful and kind towards you and others

Of course, you can add more things to your own definition of a high value man but this is the core of what a high value man is. It isn't all about the amount of money he makes, because there are plenty of rich men who are none of the things I listed above, and would not make good partners.

So now that we know what a high value man is, let's figure out where you can meet them.

Conferences and seminars - Conferences and seminars are a great place to meet men who are serious about their career or a particular topic you may also be interested in. It's also an easy place to start or have conversation with a stranger because you already have a built in topic to bring up. Look for specific events like professional events in certain industries (technology, finance, marketing), or look for personal development conferences and seminars (entrepreneurship, leadership). These tend to attract a lot of men. Plus, you can also learn a lot in the process.

Networking events - Similar to conferences and seminars, networking events are a good where to meet men who are serious about their career or in a particular topic. It is also a social event where people are looking to connect with others, so it will be easy for you to talk to men, or for a man to come up and talk to you looking to connect outside of this particular event. If you are a professional, there are likely a lot of networking events in your industry. These can be events for business professionals, people who work in marketing, HR or finance. Events for those who work in technology. the healthcare industry, education or events for entrepreneurs.

Gyms - Gyms can be a good place to meet a high quality man because gyms are often male dominated environments. It is also a great place, because if you go at the same time often you start to see the same people and they start to notice you as well, which can be a great opening to a conversation or connection. If you are looking to meet a certain type of man, check out gyms in certain neighborhoods in your city. For instance, join a gym in the financial district of your city and workout during lunch, before or after work on a weekday. This can be a way to meet someone who works in finance. You can also check out high quality luxury gyms. Meeting a man at the gym also let's you know that he is someone who wants to live a healthy lifestyle, so if that's important to you, gyms can be a great place to meet someone who has similar interests and values. It's important to note that you should probably spend more time in the weight room (where all the equipment is: weights, treadmill, bikes etc.) than in a fitness class, as more women tend to be in those classes than men.

Through hobbies and classes - Hobbies and classes are great because it is an opportunity for you to meet someone with a shared interest of yours. Just make sure to attend ones where there is a higher ratio of men to women. Certain ones, like dance classes and yoga will have more women which makes it harder to meet men. Try sports groups, hiking, tennis, running clubs, cooking clubs, language learning groups and computer programming workshops instead. 

Cultural events -  An interesting place to meet a high quality man is at art exhibitions and the theater. Particularly, if you are interested in someone who enjoys and appreciates art, or someone who is open to learning about many different cultures. Examples of cultural events include art shows, food festivals and film festivals. Depending on the exact event, these places also tend to attract more distinguished men, so if that's of interest to you then that's a good place to start.

Facebook, Eventbrite or Meetup -  Check out Facebook, Eventbrite or Meetup. These are great tools to use to find and join social groups or events to meet new people. There are tons of different groups to join or events to attend. Similar to the advice given before, look for ones that have higher male attendance. The great thing about these apps, is that you can tailor your search based on your different interests/hobbies and meet someone who shares something in common with you. Also remember, it's not just about meeting the right man that you want to date and build a relationship with, it's about building a network of people. Because some of the people you meet, may not be the right partner for you, but they might introduce you to someone who is. 

Church/other places of worship or religious groups - Religious places of worship or groups are good places to meet high value men, because it helps you meet someone who has similar values to you. Having the same values as the person you are dating is extremely important if you want to build a healthy long-term relationship. When you go into these spaces, you are also seeing the same group of people over and over again, so it really gives you time to build a rapport.

Online Dating - Although it has its issues, online dating is a very popular way to meet someone. Most people use online dating, especially due to Covid, because meeting people in more traditional ways has become very difficult. The key is to use it in the right ways, to meet the right kind of man. Use more high quality apps like Match, Hinge or Coffee Meets Bagel, over something like Tinder. Take the time to choose photos that showcase who you are and show you in your best light. Stay away from revealing photos and try to move away from just using selfies. Take the time to write a high quality bio, and be selective of who you match with and talk to. Of course, you still will probably run into men who are not your ideal, but these tips should help keep you away from men who only want to sleep with you, or are only talking to you because they are bored.

Mutual friends - If you have a great supportive group of high quality friends (avoid the friends described in Friends You Should Avoid As A Feminine Woman), then you can meet high value men through your current social network. According to research, around 30% of heterosexual couples meet through mutual friends, so this can be a great way to meet someone. Just let your friends know you are interested in dating and meeting new people, and make sure you are not turning down going out to social events with your friends. 

While you're out and about - Just being out, walking around in the world can be an opportunity to meet a great guy. Make sure you are dressed your best, your hair and makeup is on point, you smell good, and overall you look feminine. Simply smile and look at people you may be interested in when you are out and about during your day. You'll be surprised how many men are open to approaching you once you signal you are open to talking to them. Also, try to go out alone more often, as you are more likely to get approached if alone than if you are in a group. 

Hopefully these tips help you meet the perfect man for you. If you have any other ideas of where to meet high value men, leave them down in the comments below to share with other feminine sisters!